How can one continue to maintain a positive attitude towards relationships when there is so much stuff going on that will only jade your visions? I have found myself more often than not being a silent observer from the side lines… admittedly, I will discuss situations with others, but when it comes to relationships, it is almost impossible to get involved. I have two really good friends… they have been together in a relationship for a fair while now, I think approaching 5 years? I love the...

This is a poem i wrote when i was going through some tough times after breaking up with my ex... i guess i am just posting it here, so everyone can see that time really does heal all wounds... Emotionally, i am really quite the different person to the day i wrote this - i remember it well... i was really quite depressed... A far, far cry from my moods of late. Circles swimming round my head Often wishes to be dead Weird desires coming and going Aimless love eternally flowing Terms with...

I had the fortunate privilege of being invited to a house party on Friday night just gone. It was in a small town, about 50 kilometres east of Melbourne – A place called Healesville. The east side of Melbourne is famous for its open and green terrain… this is the area from which a lot of Victoria’s finer wines come from. A popular area for the Sunday drivers with the Mercedes and BMW’s due to the open and windy roads. 50Klms is a long way to go to a party you may say – and I know this i...

It was around Christmas time last year when my mate Dave was first breaking up with his Girlfriend... she pulled the friendship line. Dave is a very similar person to myself... thats why we get along so well... He told me what was going on... and all i could see was myself in the same situation the year before. I passed on the greatest advice i could give him at that point - She is a chick, she is messing around with you... dont be friends with her, just cut her out, and let her come back ...

A growing number of Australian men are turning to Russian women for relationships and marriage. But there are risks for both sides. Perth Airport, 6am. Elena Polyanskaya walks through the arrivals gate wearing dark jeans and a pale blue top, her fine, blonde hair cut boyishly short. She is exhausted after a 54-hour journey from her Russian hometown of Nizhny Novgorod, but the moment Richard Bosward sees her, he decides she is beautiful. Her eyes are wider and brighter than in the photos ...

I have found myself asking over the past few days, how long could I possibly go without falling in Love? I plan on racking off for a considerable amount of time in October this year… I don’t plan on coming home until I am 30… As insensitive and brash as I may appear, I don’t know if I can stay away that long without a love in my life. At the moment, it is all just questions, because I have absolutely no idea on how I could predict what is going to happen in my life of the next 5-10 year...

When it comes to relationships in today’s society, I think there are massive problems with conceit and disregard for people’s feelings… I don’t really know where I am going with this; I would just like some honest opinions… I am the kind of guy that cannot enter into a sexual relationship with someone unless I have feelings for them, it’s really as simple as that, although, I love woman, and I love sex. Sex is a natural act, and it feels GREAT!!! Right now, I am not in a loving physical...

This weekend was one of the first in a long time where I didn’t go out expecting to make some lovely ladies night… There are several reasons behind this… a. I am completely smitten with a beautiful woman at the moment, I wont be doing anything to jeopardise my chances b. Going out with the pre-determined notion of picking up isn’t healthy c. This weekend was diagnosed as a weekend of practical research I really have to go out more often with the above mindsets, because I have never t...

Why oh why make me so angry on a Monday morning? I get to work, and there is an email from my friend stating how she was with the guy that she liked, but nothing is going to happen from it - which she knew from the start, so now she is sad… wtf. Ok, this is brash, stupid, ridiculous, presumptuous… but chicks are easily the most emotionally retarded of the human species. It would be apparent to me that as a general rule, chicks are so devoid of logic that they are constantly hurting the...

Cock - (kok) 1. noun. A) An adult male chicken; a rooster. An adult male of various other birds. Cocks don’t really have much use to the everyday person except for getting chick’s pregnant, hence creating eggs, or waking people up in the morning with their sunshine songs. This is a small piece on cock blockers – who are also cocks, but more so cocks than other cocks. There is one particularly fine chicky commanding the attention of a certain cock, she is pretty funny, outrag...

The way society has developed over the course of our History, it has been assumed that Guys don’t really need or care for relationship advice – I am going to put that matter to bed now, because every single day, I am witness to socially inept males who seem to be frightened to death of females, and they are constantly seeking approval from the fairer sex – hurting their manhood in the process. This will be a first in a series of articles to help those males, who have no problems admitting ...

Ok, here is the deal... I have a good friend, she is the best chick in the whole wide world, bar none, and we get along soooo well... She has a boyfriend though, and knows this is the reason I dont keep in contact... every now and then though, I will send her an email, and the feelings come flooding back... She knows how I feel, make no mistake, and if boy was out of the picture, well... you get the drift... but she is really pressuring me to catch up with her... This is where the ad...

This is going to be a bit of a rant… I am feeling emotional right now, so I need some form of release… guess what JU – you are going to get it. I feel absolutely crazy right at this instance. I am going to try to articulate it in words, If you have decided to read on, I wish you the best of luck. There is so much stuff going on that is making me feel both ecstatic and rather sad. It mostly involves chicks. There are a couple of chicks who I have been seeing lately… now, I have always be...

When one has a massive amount of respect for ones self, you really must consider the company you keep. This certainly holds true when choosing a partner - someone you can spend numerous hours with at any one time, and this may be my eventual downfall, and I may die a lonely old man - but I don't think so. Unfortunately in society today their is the disposition that it is the females that do the choosing as far as relationships go. I don't prophesise to be a great psychologist, but this is ...