Young Men, Prostitutes, and Nice Girls

a corker of a quesion!

Published on August 4, 2004 By Muggaz In Personal Relationships

When it comes to relationships in today’s society, I think there are massive problems with conceit and disregard for people’s feelings… I don’t really know where I am going with this; I would just like some honest opinions…

I am the kind of guy that cannot enter into a sexual relationship with someone unless I have feelings for them, it’s really as simple as that, although, I love woman, and I love sex. Sex is a natural act, and it feels GREAT!!!

Right now, I am not in a loving physical relationship, although, fairly often, I find myself in situations where I could have meaningless one night stands with woman, and have all the sex I want – the only problem is, I have no feelings for these woman, and you can call me arrogant, but I don’t want these woman to fall in love with me and get hurt.

It’s happened before… Advances were made, rejected, and feelings were hurt. The question I am asking here, to fulfil ones sexual desires, is it ok for a nice young man, who only has the feelings of young female acquaintances in mind (along with his own sexual urges) to accost a prostitute for their services?

As a nice young girl – how would you perceive this guy? Would you rather end up courting a guy who has slept with 100 prostitutes, but is so nice, that he only did this to make sure his natural urges were fulfilled at the expense of no ones feelings? Or would you take the risk of sleeping with someone who you think you like, but in the end, he ends up to be a jerk – and girls, I think about 80% of the male populace are jerks…

I don’t know what the answer is, I just think it’s and interesting question – I have never had sex with a prostitute, even when drunk, and my friends have tried to persuade me, there is just this moral barrier that needs to be observed, and right now, I want to ascertain what that moral barrier is.

Is it immoral for countless one night stands, and many broken hearts? Or countless encounters with prostitutes, sexual gratification, and an eventual loving relationship with a nice girl, who quite possibly could have had her heart broken by an aforementioned jerk who has just used her for sex in the past?

What a corker of a question… opinions, disgust, and support are all welcomed!!!

BAM!!!

Comments (Page 4)

Muggaz

on Aug 10, 2004

Isn't it funny?

45 responses later, I am still asking the question.... prostitutes are filthy whores to some woman, who are the scum of the earth because they dont respect their woman hood, yet they are often forced by social pressures placed on them. (by a male driven society)

What is the difference between a clean prostitute or earns $125 an hour, than some coked up preppy slut who goes and fucks all night because it means people accept her because she is hot, and she doesn't have to worry about the null grey matter that is supposed to occupy her cranium...

It seems like all the pressure here is on the male... in one corner, we have woman who are willing to sell their bodies, and in another corner we have woman having sex screaming for acceptance... all the while, containing our natural urges to pounce on said woman, and get our game on... and lets face it... it is a lot easier for a nice girl to deal with those urges than a nice guy... if you aren't confident, you aren't going to get lucky very often...

Ah, the social pressures of todays youth!!! I dont need to answer this question for myself... I know the answers... everyones answers will be different though, and it's pretty whack that I even need to ask this question... it could easily go anyway...

BAM!!!

kingbee

on Aug 10, 2004

And it always ended up with a nice ‘release’. This might sound seedy,

is this your slip dr freud?

kingbee

on Aug 10, 2004

it is a lot easier for a nice girl to deal with those urges than a nice guy

really? i must not know any nice girls (thank da lawd )

(im also curious to know how the equation would change if, afterwards, the woman isnt that impressed? or disappointed? not that it would happen in your case, of course)

AndyBaker

on Aug 10, 2004

is this your slip dr freud?

Kingbee, my slip? What do you mean?

kingbee

on Aug 10, 2004

i was thinkin of seedy in a slightly different sense andy

AndyBaker

on Aug 10, 2004

I don't know what you mean Kingbee. (You'll have to forgive me, I'm a tad slow.)

AndyBaker

on Aug 10, 2004

I don't get that one Kingbee. (You'll have to excuse me, I'm slow)

AndyBaker

on Aug 10, 2004

oh, I wondered where that other post went! We're on two pages now. (no, I'm not doing it deliberately)

Muggaz

on Aug 10, 2004

I was thinkin of seedy in a slightly different sense andy

What - you dont harbor thoughts of wholesomness ALL the time??? for shame Kingbee...

Oh well... looks like my last comment didn't shock anyone... i suppose that's good... I think???

BAM!!!

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