A day to day acount of the whacky and wonderful world of Muggaz - i tend to be having too much fun these days, and often cannot remember moments due to debauchery - its time the internet repayed my loyalty by recording my antics.
What does it all mean?
Published on December 8, 2004 By Muggaz In Just Hanging Out
I don’t know how many of you crazy cats are familiar with the Eurhythmics – some 80’s pop group… but they sang a song that was entitled as thus, and it’s been going through my head all morning. I had one of those vivid dreams that involved a girl, nothing overtly sexual, just a female companion I was having fun with in the dream, and she was vividly beautiful, so much so, her image remains with my consciousness, even though she was a product of my sub-conscious.

Dreams are often subterfuge, used to trick one into a false sense of security, or perhaps the complete opposite – they can be moments of complete insanity in an otherwise bland existence. The dreams where you wake up wondering, when that happened, did that happen? Or is it going to happen? The fact I could almost touch someone I have never met, a figment of my imagination – you feel all the great aspects of human interaction – the sense of friendship and warmth, the feeling of touch through a hug or a loving gesture, but it was just a dream.

The ability to read dreams is certainly one worthy of respect – sure, I could just consult some hippy, and they would interpret my dream one way or another, but there are simply so many variables. Once again, this brain I love and hate has provided a beautiful figment of my imagination that I may never realise in person. Why must my brain incessantly torment me with desires and thoughts, creating duress through yearning, because when I wake up, I don’t have what I enjoy in my sleep?

Are dreams your ideals playing out in your head, because they know that these ideals aren’t part of your current reality? I know some people who don’t dream at all, at least, they don’t remember their dreams. I have at least one or two a week where I awake thinking what the fudge just happened? I wouldn’t have it any other way though. It’s actually quite bizarre… I remember a dream I had years ago concerning another girl, and it’s a face created by my imagination that I will never forget.

Do our imaginations know what is going to happen? It’s like the movie, Donnie Darko, where everything is planned out in visions and the necessary steps are taken by Donnie to avert occurrences… like the title track of the same movie, it certainly is a mad world – whether we know what is happening consciously or sub-consciously, our dreams are what we make them, whether we want something, or if we are afraid of something, chances are, our head will play the scenario out by no conscious fault of our own… and we are usually left wanting or asking more questions…

Who the devil was that girl… and what did it all mean?

Comments
on Dec 08, 2004
"Do our imaginations know what is going to happen?" I've always wondered the same thing. Then again, if it's not "us" actually creating our dreams with our imagination, it has to be some other force or "higher power", if you will. So, my guess is that, yes, our imaginations create. Maybe there's a deeper level to the imagination than we know conciously. Obviously there is, if our imaginations are creating our dreams.

Most dreams (if not all... I'm not sure; not an expert) have meaning to our lives. Maybe you're missing companionship (especially female). Maybe it has something to do with a past relationship.... who knows?

What did she look like?

~Sarah
on Dec 08, 2004
a dream is a dream....why does it matter? It's nothing ...its not real.....so has no purpose...I dont think it can be put in any EASIER or for that matter, BLUNT terms..
on Dec 08, 2004
I think someone's jealous of your dreams, Mug.

~Sarah
on Dec 09, 2004
yeah Mandy, I kind of feel sorry for you if you cant admire and respect what your imagination is telling you in your sleep... dreams are important... both conscious and sub-conscious dreams... i would have thought you of all people would recognise that!

To answer your question Sarah, she had an eastern European appearance, a fragile and petite girl, with a defined jaw line and this sandy blonde hair... I don't think she was reminding me of anyone, or representing anyone... just a figment of my imagination that came from no where... she was pretty hot though! I would expect nothing less of my imagination!
on Dec 09, 2004
Old Boy, I believe the song in your title was recorded by Madonna. At any rate, row, row, your boat.. life is but a dream ...
on Dec 09, 2004
Mug--I feel like I"ve been significantly lacking in my Mug experience as of late, so I stopped by to see what you've been up to. Once again, you asked the question I always think about: Do I create my dreams, or are my dreams telling me something I am not already aware of?

Dreams are intriguing in that I dont' think we will ever really have them all figured out. I remember when I was little someone told me that if you died in your dream, you died in real life. So every night I would pray that I would die in my dream--not because I wanted to die in real life but because I wanted the person who told me to be wrong. One night I was shot to death (very graphically, very vividly, it still gives me chills) in my dream and I rejoiced that I had proven the theory wrong. Later I found out that you dream in either first person (seeing the dream through your own eyes) and third person (you can see yourself in the dream). It is only when you die in first person that the theory supposedly holds true, so, in fact, I didn't prove it wrong.

Wow, that was a bit of a hijack...sorry.

Hope the meaning of your dream comes to you--or else the hot eastern european girl (I'm sure you'd take her over the meaning any day, right?)

I miss seeing you around here--don't be such a stranger!
on Dec 09, 2004
lol, why should I admire and "respect" my dreams when all they show is how i wake up with all my hair gone from my head because of my chemotherapy...don't feel sorry for me, i'm just stating an opinion...i think dreams are nothing but bad reminders of the hurt and pain you are already feeling. The day i have a good dream, i'll lte you know...and maybe then i can "respect" them
on Dec 13, 2004
I like to hope that dreams mean something, at least a fraction of them.

I received my first kiss in a dream. As most old-school Joeusers know, I've never, actually been kissed. In the dream (which on occured a few weeks ago), a shirtless guy in a cowboy hat steals a kiss at a volleyball game. What does it mean? I have no idea; I don't even play volleyball.

I'll never forget that kiss, though, and although it wasn't real, I'll compare all future kisses with the man in my dreams.

Trinitie
on Dec 13, 2004
Old Boy, I believe the song in your title was recorded by Madonna. At any rate, row, row, your boat.. life is but a dream ...


right artist, right title, wrong song - Madonna did have a song Who's that girl in the 80's that went with a movie of the same name but she speaks spanish in that song.
Chorus:

Quien es esa nina, who's that girl
Senorita, mas fina, who's that girl
Quien es esa nina, who's that girl
Senorita, mas fina, who's that girl

Mugz IS thinking of the annie lennox - eurthymics classic - Who's that Girl - no spanish

chorus
Who's that girl
Running around with you?
Tell me
Who's that girl
Running around with you?

Mandy - don't stop dreaming. Hair grows back, I have a good friend diagnosed with Leukimia in August this year who's in remission -- her hair is growing back and she wakes up feeling blessed every morning that she survived cancer