from the perspective of a man
A freid was telling me a story the other day about how he was standing out the front of a shopping centre smoking a cigarette, and this slightly overweight girl approaches him, and asks him if he wants to come to the movies, she is paying... Now my friend is not an asshole generaly, but what I am about to tell you will probably disgust you somewhat - I was shocked.
He goes into the movies with this chick, who he does not find attractive at all... she has obviously got him along to see a movie because she seeks acceptance and companionship... anyway... She start's undoing his zipper and performs felatio on him in the movie theatres... so my friend, he just sits there and 'cops it' so to speak. Their little encounter continues on to a meal, and then a bus journey... My friend finally figures out that he had best split, because he really isn't interested in getting to know this girl, and he needs to go into damage control... he ditches her, and I can only imagine how her feelings were hurt.
Why is it that woman feel so insecure about who they are, that they have to resort to approaching strangers, and giving them head half an hour after they meet? Obviously - this young lady wa sa special case, but it all leads back to the same fundamental problems - sex is given to much importance by a conceited society. Who do these young ladies look to for role models? Teenage slappers strutting about film studios recording raunchy video clips. Covers of magazines with woman who dont know what a square meal is, and their souls are usually as empty as their heads...
I was watching the Olympic opening ceremony, and I had a revelation... young girls have no further to look for inspiration from the beautiful female athletes of the Olympic games. The dedication and integrity required to reach the pinnacle level of athletics and sport is nothing short of admirable. These woman dont possess this drive and determination to impress anyone else - they want to be the best for thier own benefit.
As I was watching, i was absoluty flabbergasted at the plethora of stunning woman circling the stadium... these are the woman that should be donning the magazine covers, with stories how the practiced whatever their field of expertise was from dusk till dawn. They are no different from anyone else, other than a few genetic benefits, they are where they are today because of intense determination and passion to succeed.
Just quietly, I would not mind being in the Olympic village at the moment, surrounded by inspirational and beautiful people... I am not sure if i would socailise with the likes of Maurice Greene and his pig headed demeanor, but I guess thats the price of success... to be successful, you have to believe you are the best. Arrogance can be a common trait in athletes, but i would take a confident friend over an insecure one any day.
Young ladies of this world, I know some of you read this blog... I know us guys can make life tough for you sometimes... I admit, most of us are jerks, but generally, you have my respect... all I ask as a sincere and genuine male, is that you respect yourself. You dont need to suck a guys dick in a movie theatre, heck, you dont even need to wear short skirts... Just always ask the question... You aren't 'worth it' it because of a Loreal cosmetics campaign, you are 'worth it' because you are here. Show me what you are made of girls, I know you are special, you just have to believe it.
BAM!!!