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we are all a little scared.
Published on July 13, 2004 By Muggaz In Blogging
Uncertainty is basically a derivative of fear, we fear what we don’t know, and we fear the wrong choices. We fear the difficulty of what we know to be the right choices.

How do we know they are the right choices? We have to trust our intuition? How can we be certain that our intuition is trust worthy, when we are conscious of the mistakes we have made in the past?

Heart and mind are both strong in their own right, but how do we amalgamate these separate strengths to become the force of stability that I am craving right now?

We know our personal choices affect us, but fear of failing someone you care about accentuates uncertainty. It’s like a jabbing pain in my chest that is screaming for solidarity or release…

Is this a fairy tale? Or a sick twisted comedy for the lords of fate, who desire a laugh at our expense.

Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching… I don’t have the power to manipulate fate, nor am I under anyone else’s influence…

Strap yourself in, and enjoy the ride… know when to slow down, and know when to waive your hands in the air.

The only thing to fear is fear itself…

I thought writing this would help… I don’t feel any better though… I am still very scared. We are all afraid of something… at least we can be afraid together.

BAM!!!

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on Jul 13, 2004
I have no fear, fore I have faced the worst and nothing in this world can compare.
on Jul 13, 2004
- eerily comforting CS guy...

BAM!!!
on Jul 14, 2004


Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching


Truer words have never been spoken. There's nothing wrong about been scared now and again, it shows we are human, it's how we confront that fear that really matters. That you are scared of a certain situation shows just how much that means to you. You're a sensible guy Mugz, the decisions you make will be right for you, and those around you, I have that much faith in you

We are all afraid of something… at least we can be afraid together.


Yep, and we can solve our problems together too. I hope you're feeling slightly better, and just because something seems difficult doesn't mean it's not worth working for, it may just mean the rewards are greater at the end!

on Jul 14, 2004
Love like you have never been hurt

yup...everyone should do that

and you should also Love without any doubt and full confidence of yourself and the person you are in love with. If you don't, you'll see that your doubt will only push those close to you away.
on Jul 14, 2004
Muggaz~I think fear can be a useful thing. As long as you don't allow it to rule your life. When I am totally afraid of something (happens a lot more than I care to think about), I usually fess up to my own self that I am afraid. Then I ask myself~of what am I afraid the most? Once that is identified... I ask myself... what small steps can I take to lessen my fear~and ultimately beat it altogether? This system seems like a humble one. But it works for me big time. I have managed to give up booze forever because of it. I have moved 2000 miles away to a new city and state to get a much needed fresh start. I have gone back to college and earned 3 years of credits (even made the dean's list twice!)~after my doctors told me I would never be able to do such a thing. And it all started with fear. That's what motivated me. So I do like that one famous quote a lot: "We have nothing to fear but fear itself." Totally cool article dude! Blog on big time!

~MP
on Jul 14, 2004
Wow..Madpoet41...that's so inspirational!
on Jul 14, 2004
Fear is a signifier which shows us that there is something that needs to be dealt with - as Mad Poet said, it's a motivator. Well, that's what they say in psychology. What's that saying? There's nothing to fear but fear itself? I think CS has fought and won this battle by the sound of things.

Fear is good as it shows us that we need to keep changing and expanding. I'm terrified of being hurt emotionally (as are most people) as I don't know if I have the resources to cope with the fall out. But knowing this means that I have been able to work on building the resources I think I need to deal with life.

Fear is positive. If fear can be treated as a friend not a foe, it can help you realise what it is that you truly want and need to work on. I hate to use two cliches in one comment (please don't troll me for this! ) but 'feel the fear and do it anyway!'

(Ahhh - you're too enlightened to listen to this claptrap anyway. You know how things work. Keep on keeping on my dear friend!)

(Oh yeah - Sal mentioned that you were on MSN - add me (if you like) suzi_koch@hotmail.com Cheers!)
on Jul 14, 2004
There's nothing to fear but fear itself? I think CS has fought and won this battle by the sound of things.


But remember, some people believe that a man that fears nothing loves nothing. I'm not saying that is true, but I think it is worth consideration. I know I lost the majority of my fear when I realized that much that happens in this world is, ultimately, unimportant. I stopped caring so much about a lot of things that had caused my blood to boil in my youth.

I'm terrified of being hurt emotionally (as are most people) as I don't know if I have the resources to cope with the fall out.


I do not fear being hurt emotionally because I know that I do have the resources to cope.
on Jul 14, 2004
(Oh yeah - Sal mentioned that you were on MSN - add me (if you like) suzi_koch@hotmail.com Cheers!)

Anyone wishing to can add me as well, tschrupp@hotmail.com
on Jul 14, 2004
I do not fear being hurt emotionally because I know that I do have the resources to cope.


I guess sometimes you need to test things to make sure they work alright? Maybe I haven't had to do that yet (or maybe I'm a big sissy?)
I added you to my MSN. Feel free to add me!
on Jul 14, 2004
Wow - thanks for all your comments guys...

MP - you told me exactly what I needed to hear - You have always been an inspirational character for me, and you just solidified that opinion.

I know what I need to do, and that is embrace every challenge as a character defining moment in my life!

Thanks so much guys.

BAM!!!
on Jul 14, 2004
and wont hesitate to take away everything you think you love just to get your attention.


What makes you think I love?
on Jul 14, 2004
Anyone wishing to can add me as well, tschrupp@hotmail.com


ditto - trina_angel_chats@hotmail.com
on Jul 14, 2004
- this is the msn hook up thread!

anyone can add me mr_frenchy1@hotmail.com

What makes you think I love?


If you dont love, then I feel sorry for you bro...

BAM!!!
on Jul 15, 2004
If you dont love, then I feel sorry for you bro...


No need for that. I love, but the things I love can not be taken from me.
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