Drama Queens

life is a soapy for the chicks!!!

Published on June 28, 2004 By Muggaz In Blogging

This article was inspired by a recent Maxim survey of the American woman – brought to my attention by the great pschxx in this article

According to Maxim, 80% of the American women (Maxim readers at least) prefer the macho, jealous type of boyfriend… I am no psychology major, however, it has come to my attention that there are many women here on JU, and perhaps they can provide some insight…

Some members of our glorious community have put it down to the female love of drama… This is a concept that I can entertain, and it makes perfect sense to me…

So tell me ladies… what is it about drama that is so appealing? Do genuine, trust worthy, exceptionally charming lads have some unknown inability to produce this kind of drama, or is it just a sub-standard form of Drama?

Drama Queens… fill me in… What kind of guy do you prefer??? (For argumentative purposes, you cannot say me, even though I know I am your hearts desire

) and why? What draws you to those characteristics…?

Be honest with yourself, and all of us!!! Nice guys deserve at least that much from you crazy wenches!!!

BAM!!!

Comments (Page 1)

trina_p

on Jun 28, 2004

I don't know about drama but I suppose a woman would like that type of guy "jealous" because then she'd know he liked her - it sounds weird but if I guy goes to all the trouble of being jealous of another guy - example someone that's just a friend - it shows the woman her "man" cares about her.

Or maybe she just likes being treated like a possession?

I have no idea.

Muggaz

on Jun 28, 2004

I have no idea.

YES!!! Categorical proof Woman have no idea what they want!!!!

Thanks Trina

BAM!!!

H-Bomb

on Jun 28, 2004

No markus Trina has a good point......

We love being fussed over......So if a guy were with gets there back up because were talking to a friend or a total stranger, we love it because we can see he actually cares about us and doesn't want anyone else near us, its like were theres and no one else's......it might sound stoopid and yeah it is, but thast how it is....

Most girls love it.....i know i love being protected and being made to feel as if im his and only his!

I know from experience that i perfer the jealous macho guy....i tried the nice sensative guy, and it didn't sit well with me.....it was like i had to baby him......like i was with him that night and he just followed me round like a lost puppy and then when another guy kissed me he did nothing he just said its ok bla bla bla, who wants that???????? you want someone that is going to care if some dude puts his mouth on you.....you dunt want some sissy to just stand there and tell u its ok and that he doesn't mind!!!!!!

Or do you?

Muggaz

on Jun 28, 2004

HBOMB!!!!

remember what happened that night Ken Meece was at Kates house? did I put up with it? no.... that was the last time i hit someone actually!!! hehe... that was funny...

Just because someone is nice doesn't mean they dont fuss over you... they just choose not to be an a$$ about it...

BAM!!!

H-Bomb

on Jun 28, 2004

hehehehe i was there remember i was in HOSPITAL and you all decided to go there and drink without while i was laid up in bed hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

and im not saying nice guys dunt ever stick up for you im just saying that they normally just lket it slide adn we get pissed over it, cos to us it sorta makes us feel you dunt care, and you dunt care if another guy tries his hardest to be with you.....

we just want someone who is going to protect us, and make us feel special even if it is the thug thast doing it......

hey dunt get me wrong......the guy you are expalining right now...the nice guy......that is my group of frineds in a nut shell....and i see it happen to them everytime.......

but you gotta relise that as much as there are guys like that! it works the same with woman also......the nice girls get screwed over, and the bitches get the guys......its a never ending cylce! it will never change so either you change or you get nowhere!!!!!!!!!

WiseFawn

on Jun 28, 2004

There are so many drama queens. But there are also so many nice girls that get left unnoticed by the guys falling for the drama queens. Women can be very manipulative, jealous creatures.

Why is that there are so many guys wanting the women that crack the whips? Or guys wanting the drama queens? I've always heard that nice guys finish last, but actually, nice girls don't even get to finish.

Poetmom99

on Jun 29, 2004

According to Maxim, 80% of the American women (Maxim readers at least) prefer the macho, jealous type of boyfriend… I am no psychology major, however, it has come to my attention that there are many women here on JU, and perhaps they can provide some insight…

They can be exciting to date, if you think that kind of behavior signifies "love"....but as you get more mature and realize what love REALLY is, those are the guys you run from. Unfortunately, some of us don't mature to that point until after we actually MARRY one of the wrong ones....and THAT is a disaster, let me tell ya!

I suppose a woman would like that type of guy "jealous" because then she'd know he liked her - it sounds weird but if I guy goes to all the trouble of being jealous of another guy - example someone that's just a friend - it shows the woman her "man" cares about her.

IMO, if a guy is jealous, it means he's insecure and doesn't trust the relationship, or me......which means it's never going to work out between us. I'm not the jealous type, and I can't handle a man who is.....

Just because someone is nice doesn't mean they dont fuss over you... they just choose not to be an a$$ about it...

Exactly! My hubby is the most caring, wonderful man I know....but he doesn't get crazy jealous over my male friends. Of course, I have enough respect for US not to do/say/behave/ etc.....in ways that would be considered inappropriate.

Mandeep Sahota

on Jun 29, 2004

There are so many drama queens. But there are also so many nice girls that get left unnoticed by the guys falling for the drama queens. Women can be very manipulative, jealous creatures. Why is that there are so many guys wanting the women that crack the whips? Or guys wanting the drama queens? I've always heard that nice guys finish last, but actually, nice girls don't even get to finish.

I LOVE you!!! YOu have totally represented me!!! I'm one of the nice girls, but I ALWAYS am unnoticed by teh guys I want!! I swear!! Why is it that the bitchy, superficial, rich, controlling, horny chearleaders get the guys that I want?!?!?!?!!!??!?! And once they have the guy, they give him zero attention and flirt with other guys to make him feel like crap! I think guys like the drama queens. Maybe it's because they're drawn to the drama themselves.

Sally jacobs

on Jun 29, 2004

Hmmm.....so women are drama queens who like macho possesive guys, who can only show they care about you by batting you over the head, throwing you over their shoulder and take you back to their cave, huh? I don't consider myself to be one of these nice girls, I have my moments of been a complete pain in the ass, I'll freely admit it, I don't let a guy walk all over me, I expect certain things, I expect to be treated a certain way and I don't expect anything less. So in them respects I guess I can be classed as hard work, or someone who knows what she wants and is not willing to settle for anything less. Am I a drama queen? I have been called that in the past, I think my problem is I actually enjoy a good argument, not even an argument, a debate, I love it, to have an intellectual argument about something, and I actually go out of my way to do this, the making up is always good to. These possesive guys though, they just freak me out, why can't he just tell you he cares about you and you believe him??? Why does he have to get jealous? I'm sorry I don't understand anyone wanting that kind of behaviour to happen. I actually find it sexy that a man can leave you to your own devices and not get jealous because shock, horror you're talking to another guy. It's all about playing games, and I hate that with a passion, open and honest is the best way to be. All I want is a nice sensitive, intelligent guy who can make me smile on occasion and I will be happy. I don't want some guy that is so retarded in showing his emotions he can only do it by acting like an ass and getting jealous. Give me the nice guy anyday! As for the guys wanting the drama queens, them guys deserve all the earache, heartache and any other aches they may get due to these queens of drama, I said it before, the nice girls just need to find the nice guys and leave everyone else to enjoy the games they seem to get a kick out of. Sorry for the waffle Mugz, great article, these things just wind me up, that all girls like dumbass guys, and all men like drama queens, not true! Done now

Kayles

on Jun 29, 2004

My ex-husband was one of those jealous, a$$hole-types and he ended up being abusive. He lured me into his web by being sensitive and caring (of course, I was only 18, so I couldn't see the truth). I think I have learned my lesson, maybe the hard way? Now, I always seem to end up with guys who cry more than I do! I know it sounds sweet, but when you’re trying to talk about the relationship and your boyfriend is sobbing in a little puddle on the floor, it gets old. So, which is better? The emotional wreck-type that can't decipher his feelings about you, or the Macho-jealous guy that shows the world you’re his? Is there some middle ground? Are there any emotionally stable, dependable, yet sensitive and caring men in this world?

Poetmom99

on Jun 29, 2004

Been there done that....and here's to never going back again!

Kayles

on Jun 29, 2004

Cheers, Poetmom!

CS Guy

on Jun 29, 2004

In my experience there is a fine line to balance to satisfy a woman's desires for a jerk and for a nice guy. Sometimes they want a guy that will rush to their defense, even when they don't need defending. Sometimes they want a guy who will trust them and respect them. The problem is that I've seen these traits appear in the same girl. There is nothing wrong with that, and I certainly change my wants based on circumstance, but it means new relationships can get a bit confusing at times.

I went through a jealous phase in my teens and found that most girls did not respond well. The same jealous behaviors in college seemd to garner much better reactions. Later in life I mellowed quite a lot. The same type of girls that responded so well to the jerk me in college found the respectul/trusting me uncaring. It wasn't that I didn't care about them, just that I had learned that there are some things not worth getting red-faced and insane about. However, I found that girls that were themselves respectful and trusting (of themselves and others) responded favorably to the new me. I also found these relationships much more satisfying.

AndyBaker

on Jun 29, 2004

Is there some middle ground? Are there any emotionally stable, dependable, yet sensitive and caring men in this world?

Yes here! I have a teeny todger though

I prefer big hugs and sensuality anyway.

Muggaz

on Jun 29, 2004

[evil laugh]

Mwahahahahahaha

[/evil laugh]

My plan has worked... I have isolated the desirable female population of JU.... mwahahahahaha....

No seriously... I am so pleased you guys shared your thoughts and input on this... It is a social problem, based on what we see and hear every day in society... everyone here is insightful... If only I had more than 5 insightfuls in a day... you would all get them!!!

BAM!!!

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