A bit closer to home.... I am in Melbourne

BAM!!!

ANDY BAKER are you in Australia??? you said drama and wanker in your post!!!

No I'm from England. "Dramas and wankers = Australia"? You must be thinking of Aussie soaps! Anyone else from England?

Oooh me, I'm from England, the lovely Manchester, home of the great Manchester United, hehe! Oh and Sir Petey Maxwell is also English, where abouts are you Andy? (Aussie soaps rule btw!)

Oooh me, I'm from England

I thought you might be Sally, as you'd seen the poster programme on the other thread. I'm from West Midlands. Have you been there before? I do like Manchester, must admit.

Can you enlighten me on this Bloggs stuff for a moment? What does "points" mean, and how are they accumulated? I also can't see male or female on the profiles. Do we just need to just guess, (i.e. those with funny names, or who aren't clear by the messages). Sorry to be a plank.

Andy

Haha....enlighten you, theres a link at the bottom of the page...that says the scoring system, click on that and it explains it all. Basically you get points for articles you write, points for comments you give and recieve, then there's the whole rating an article thing, it's explained on that link far better than I ever could!

I've never had the pleasure of the West Mids, though a friend of mine does live there! Manchester rocks, I wouldn't swap it for the world! Yeah I was very impressed with your comment on the poster thread, i'm glad people liked it!

Thanks Sally, I didn't see those bits at the bottom of the page

I think I know what you are hinting at Mugs,

There are certain things that are beyond our circle of influence. (IE Other's people's affairs.) Now you may have to come to terms that this may be one of yours/definitely mine - obsessive traits. I say obsess because you are making everyday events personal. Been there, done that. You are sensitive because you are single. And, if left alone long enough you might find certain things set you off. Like this girl for instance.

For comparison purposes I too had a girl I liked once. We didn't know each other but we would routinely cross paths on the way to work. I waved and smiled alot. Every time like clock work - the horse blinders went on - went into I can't see you mode and ignored me. Funny thing was this made me want her more... Then one day her shapely body had a slip, all of a sudden I noticed a pronounced belly hang out. A pregnant belly. Geezus $%^$#^% she was messing around and it WASNT WITH ME!. That award-winning ass was I went what can only be described as rage.

Several days later and a few broken objects I realized I was obsessed about a person I didn't know, knew nothing about, and had a fantasy broken. I totally objectified her and let myself be stupid. I realized that not moving on is to harass yourself with misery. It isn't worth it.

My advice and it is hard - try your damndest and ignore her. Her business is hers and yours is yours.

Ok Jake, good story there......and yes you have a point........but markus grahams situation is totally different......he doesn't like me like that.....hes like my brother man, grossness plus!!!!!

Hes just pissed that girls keep going for the wrong guys, example me!,and that he is the nice intelligent "nice guy" that keeps getting f@$k over by "us" girls! and after i told him about my new mission, he got angry cos hes heard it a million times from me and is sick of it, so he thought he would try and understand.
But what everyone has to relise is that theres no understanding it, there never will be.

And what has to be said is, if your all thinking you get screwed over by us, then your going for the wrong type of girl, so mayb take another approach and go for someone you would normally never go for, try your luck there!!!!!!!!!