Females of JU - I need your advice!

hehe... yeah, suck it up!

Published on May 11, 2004 By Muggaz In Personal Relationships

Ok, here is the deal...

I have a good friend, she is the best chick in the whole wide world, bar none, and we get along soooo well... She has a boyfriend though, and knows this is the reason I dont keep in contact... every now and then though, I will send her an email, and the feelings come flooding back...

She knows how I feel, make no mistake, and if boy was out of the picture, well... you get the drift... but she is really pressuring me to catch up with her...

This is where the advice comes in handy... I want to jump her bones... what are some little measures I can use to test if she would be receptive of my advances?

Chicks will be the death of me... her bf is big as well, he could beat me up... but I cant help it I am naturally charming!!!

BAM!!!

Comments (Page 2)

dharmagrl

on May 11, 2004

Muggaz, are you sure this isn't a case of yearning for the forbidden fruit? You want her because she's with someone else...and as soon as she becomes available you lose interest?

Is she living with this guy? How long have they been together? I ask because to me, if the attraction was as strong as you say it is and if there were no strings attached, I would have thought that you and she would have found a way to be together by now....

..just my 2 cents worth.

shadesofgrey

on May 11, 2004

Ok I just want to clarify the comment about the best way to bed a girl is to befriend her. Yea, here's the deal on that...if we aren't interested, you can try your damnest to be our bestest-best friend, and it still won't allow you access to our pants.

As for the girl...I'm with Dharma and Mignuna on this one...I think it's all about wanting what you can't have...

Tangled Wishes

on May 11, 2004

Muggaz... good luck.

There's another spesh??

~Anne

new-age nomad

on May 11, 2004

My thoughts? I know I'll get critisized for how naive I am, but I'm gonna say it anyway...

IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, IT'LL HAPPEN!!!

I know Muggaz disagrees and all, cuz he's "in charge of his fate"...but whatever. That's my advice.

Trinitie

carebear07

on May 11, 2004

If you really like this girl then if you're ever around her watch how she acts and the things she says. Or the next time you see here maybe you'd want to have a couple of friends nearby to see if they think she likes you. That's usually how I know that a guy likes me, usually my friends come up and say to me that they know he likes me because they can tell. But I don't know for sure if it works that way with guys or not. Obviously I wouldn't know that since im not a guy. If you're so charming like you say that you are maybe your charm will eventually work its magic on this girl. And if she doesn't want a relationship maybe it's because she doesn't want anything to happen to the great friendship that you guys have together. Well I hope my advice has been helpful to you!

~carebear~

gothic impulse

on May 11, 2004

Muggaz ... if she is special and you care for her ..you should want her to be happy.

I am guessing her boyfirend makes her happy and she loves him very much or she wouldn't be with him.

Sometimes, even though it is hard ..if you love someone ...you step back and put what's best for them first ...even though it hurts you.

Maybe stay her friend and wait for things to run thier course with her boyfriend.

I also agree with the girls ... are you sure it's not just because you can't have her?

Goodluck my friend.

Jess

crimson

on May 11, 2004

Chicks will be the death of me

hehehe.... I don't really think you need advice, Mug. But it's obvious you've got our support! FC, baby!

Muggaz

on May 11, 2004

Thanks Ladiez!!!

Shades, thanks for saying that, just in case any other guys read this, because I know this, but a lot of guys dont... Once a chick has decided she isn't attracted to you, the only thing you can do to win that attraction, is basically not be mean, but yeah, certainly do be a softcock wussy!

You guys have all been so helpful in your own special little ways, and I know exactly how I am going to approach the situation... even if nothing happens, I am confident I can at least have her thinking about it... without even saying a thing! and thats all i need!

You are all playing your part into the development of 'Superstud Muggaz'!

hehe

BAM!!!

Muggaz

on May 11, 2004

oh, and just to clarify... The attraction is not because I cant have her... thats propostorous! I am attracted to her because she is beautiful in every single way... She has the best personality, is extremely smart, and has a smile to die for!!!

If you're so charming like you say that you are maybe your charm will eventually work its magic on this girl

hehe... damn straight!

I am guessing her boyfirend makes her happy and she loves him very much or she wouldn't be with him.

I know for a fact that this isn't the case... well, not all the time... She used to whinge about him to me all the time, and i flat out told her that I wasn't interested in hearing her sad stories about him, because I could make it all better... she has since stopped talking about him whenever she talks to me, and let me tell you, she has become far more responsive to me since...

Thats another free lesson for all - guys, dont ever listen to a girl whinge about her boyfriend to you, because she still goes home to him, and you are merely her intellectual whore!!! for more information - visit here for the Ladder Theory This website explains a hell of a lot!!!

BAM!!!

shadesofgrey

on May 11, 2004

You are all playing your part into the development of 'Superstud Muggaz'!

Yup, I find that scary...very very scary.

Thats another free lesson for all - guys, dont ever listen to a girl whinge about her boyfriend to you, because she still goes home to him, and you are merely her intellectual whore!!!

well said.

H-Bomb

on May 13, 2004

Why do u keep doing this to yourself mark? seriously!

I thought we have been over this before? but once again u do not listen!!!

Muggaz

on May 13, 2004

Haz you nuffa.... It's not who you think it is...

you are such a n00b!

BAM!!!

H-Bomb

on May 13, 2004

Markus you do not say my name u fool..........

and i have already told u this but i will say it again....i know exactly who ur talking about.....i know its not stinkrat, its that other one!! quick question doesn't she live really far away????
so hows that gunna work?

Muggaz

on May 13, 2004

lol n00b... she only lives in Beaumaris or something like that... hehe.. dont worry about it!!! I am not going to try anything fresh!

BAM!!!

H-Bomb

on May 13, 2004

Trust me i aint worried at all hehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

if she hasn't left her boyfriend yet, she never will~

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